Welcome to my Blog

When I started this blog, my goal was to bring back my smile. New experiences, new culture, new everything, but nothing materialistic. No Waldorf’s, no Hilton’s, just a room in a nice apartment. No fancy dinners, no expensive clothes, just a new cultures cuisine. Simple, right? 


What Is Love? Pt V

This one is going to be a different kind of love - the self. What does it mean to love yourself? Do you go get a pedicure? Do you see a relative, laugh, hug, and talk? Do you surround yourself at a dinner table with your favorite people, just to hear the sound that it produces? Do you go shopping for a new pair of shoes? All the lotions, potions, and creams will not buy love. These are all things that one could categorize as being kind to yourself or showing yourself love by looking your best. Whatever analysis brings a label, it can all boil down to love. A deeper type of love for the self is respect, values, character, and demeanor.

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The Healing Blog

In this blog you will find series of post depicting how one man is challenging negative experiences to create a positive purpose. These blog post are dedicated to opening your heart to love again, healing, and the positive aspects of self-compassion.

 

"I created The Purpose  in order to educate readers on my goals for simplee healing." - Chris 

 


Safe Gay Spaces Pt IV - Brazil

Foreign Gay Culture; Nightlife in the city; to spending time with connections. 

 

Each man has his definition of what it is like to be gay and do gay shit, so I will try to describe mine. Gay culture is expressed in many ways, what one likes, the other scoffs at. I have noticed that everyone has their own curiosity and gravitates towards that. I wanted to allow my curiosity to try a plethora of gay shenanigans. I set out to seek answers to my queer question, “What is my type of fun?” Whether that is, shopping, nightlife, concerts, museums, dive diners, drag shows, libraries, restaurants, fancy meals, or the coffee shop, I (we) want things to be pretty. And, well.... Gay

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The Travel Blog

In this series of blog post, you will be able to read and learn from a globetrotter on how to start your own healing adventure. This blog highlights the experiences in foreign countries that have helped heal freeze responses.

 

"I wanted to create a blog dedicated to how I just started to heal my inner Bob Wiley, clutching onto my inner voice of empowerment." - Chris